Seeking shelter where there is none : BDSM cannot and will not “fix” your problems.

This is the first time I have ever reblogged anything. But… I can not tell you how absolutely spot on it is. The whole thing in it’s entirety is super important and you should read it in it’s entirety. But what made it absolutely reblog worthy, aside from being absolutely blunt, in my eyes,was the last half about finding the right D/s.. it is something I feel is … not ever really considered.
Please give it a read ♡Sin

Pup Brozo

Lately in the scene, I notice a pattern with a lot of female s-types that has become an issue. I do not mean to single out a gender bracket entirely. Let me preface this by saying this is my current experience. Mine. Therefore I’m fully allowed to state my take on it and offer a bit of insight. The pattern I notice is this direct or back-handed assumption that BDSM/Little space/Pup Space is going to solve all your problems. That d-types are here to make everything better and essentially play superman to broken spirits.

You’re here for the wrong reasons. Come back later when you’ve leveled out mentally and emotionally.

That may be blunt and painful to read, but it’s a fact. A fact we really need to acknowledge and discuss. Because there’s too many hearts being broken at their own hands and none of these types want to see…

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